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Showing posts with label allowing. Show all posts
Showing posts with label allowing. Show all posts

Monday, November 13, 2023

It's All in the Heart

 

 


 

Humans have lived from the brain, ego, and in fear for a very long time.

Now we’re transitioning to moving into and living from the heart. This transition may be a little rocky until we adjust; we may occasionally feel emotionally sensitive.

What does that look and feel like? Well, for me, I feel my – and others – emotions a lot stronger than a year ago…and that’s saying a lot for an empath.

Since we’re moving more into the heart – which is stronger compassion, empathy and a lot stronger connection to emotions – one may experience stronger reactions to grief, praise, beauty in one’s world and perhaps feeling “moved” a lot stronger.

A friend called recently and told me some sad news about her horse; I teared up.

In the same call, she complimented me, and I teared up again.

But There Might Be More

Because we are essentially becoming more sensitive, this might include feeling and/or reacting more to shifts and changes on Earth, with Earth.

All the earthquakes, volcanic activity, tornadoes/twisters, or hurricanes and typhoon energies can create..Read More

by Jan Toomer 

Sunday, April 23, 2023

How Do I Allow?

 

 


 By acknowledging that others have the right to their life journey without your judgment or criticism*. This, however, doesn’t mean that we accept abuse in any form.

Sometimes it’s Hard


Sometimes it’s hard to listen to those who wish to complain and yet do nothing to change; they stay in a perpetual loop in victim-mode energy. They just want to whine and not change.

We can respect ourselves and respect others by accepting everyone’s right to their experiences. We can be a shoulder to cry on or lend an ear to listen to someone’s venting and still not try to rescue them. Gentle suggestions may be offered, but the decision is theirs, not ours.

With the victim-mode scenario, if it were me listening to someone who wants to stay in that mode, I’d be done. I don’t want to play in anyone’s victim-mode sandbox.

I can allow them the right to keep playing, but I can walk away a no longer engage.

I may sometimes sound cold or dispassionate, but I assure you I am not.

Allowing is Not


- Entitlement. No one...Read More

by Jan Toomer

Sunday, February 5, 2023

Energy Update - February 5, 2023

 

 


 

 ~ Putting It into Practice ~

The last two weeks have been…interesting.

The energy we’re in right now is moving fast forward, and with it, new possibilities are presenting themselves now and in the near future.

With these current energies, I’ve had days of only wanting to eat vegan broth and drink water. My stomach wanted nothing else. Other days, I was ravenous. I wasn’t sick or out-of-whack, I was adjusting to the energies that are being brought to us to “upgrade” our energy and physical bodies.

I’ve also had bouts of temporary exhaustion that seemed to come out of nowhere. I respected what my body was asking of me; I’m not a nap kind of gal, but I would sit and zone out or relax while my body needed to do what it needed to do.

These energies continue to be brought in from solar flares, CME’s, and yes, even the pole shift.

Putting It into Practice

Over the years, the Team has brought us information to prepare ourselves for

- Healing and releasing the anchors that kept us tied to the 3D

- To know ourselves and our individual energy; to trust self, and more.

Why have we been guided and encouraged to do this? Why did we need this? Because of where we are now…now we’re putting it into practice.

Many may:

- Have felt the shift from being overwhelmed – aka triggered – by the 3D drama to experiencing viewing it...Read More

by Jan Toomer

 

 

 

Sunday, November 14, 2021

Where Are You On The Scale?

 

 


 Where are you on a scale of zero percent up to one hundred percent? The responsibility scale can be applied to an individual / self, and groups or organizations, businesses, your local town, city, state governments, federal government.

This is based on my energetic observations and interpretations and is very generalized. This scale is for visualization only – it is not to scale, it is an approximation and not set in stone.

 

I’m talking about accepting responsibility for your reality.


0% - Victim-mode. Thrives on drama. If life is too calm, will create drama; this is done to re-emphasize that they are a victim. Is great at trying to draw others into their dramatic play, also known as manipulating. “Happiness” is dependent on being in the spotlight as a victim and/or stirring others up.

In victim-mode, the “victim” is giving away their power to others. This is necessary to maintain the role of being a victim. “Suzy Q wronged me”, “They won’t let/allow me to____”, “My boss did ____ to me”, etc.

They want to whine about the grave injustices done TO them. They want others to get ... Read More

by Jan Toomer




Sunday, March 14, 2021

It's Time For Intolerance To End

 

 


 A question posed to me: How do you let go of intolerance and judging and move into tolerance?

Let's take a look at intolerance; what does it mean and what does it create?

Intolerance is an unwillingness to accept an energy, action or behavior, or belief that's different from yours.  

Having a negative opinion about someone's beliefs, views, ideas, skin color, appearance, social status, gender, etc. because it's not the same as yours and you feel you are better than them because of it is judging.

Both judging and intolerance of others behaviors are rooted in fear. Perhaps it's a fear ... Read More


by Jan Toomer



 

Monday, November 19, 2018

Kickin' and Screamin'

I often tell people that no one belongs on a pedestal, myself included. We are all having human experiences, and we all have skills…but we are all human.

This time that we are in is about facing your deepest ______ (whatever) and hopefully healing and releasing it.

But it’s also a time for relationships, and because of our recent energy shifts, we are experiencing a change in our team (which is a relationship) – a changing of the guides. This change is to bring in some higher frequency guidance for our next phase of our Earth journey.

And for me, it was about kickin’ and screamin’…Read More

by Jan Toomer






Monday, June 27, 2016