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Showing posts with label judging. Show all posts
Showing posts with label judging. Show all posts

Sunday, November 6, 2022

Stand in Two Worlds

 

 


Sitting in the hot springs pool on the banks of the Rio Grande, I watched a blue heron standing on the water’s edge. So still. So patient.

Heron’s Message

Heron reminded me that you can be of both (or many) worlds and can obtain and maintain balance, stillness and patience within.

And with heron’s message, I energetically pulled back so I could observe (perhaps with more objectivity?) and ponder (I love that word).

I’ve had to learn patience – both for myself and with others. For me, I’ve always like instant gratification…to see some sort of results immediately.

Hubby, the strategist, is in for the long run to achieve the goal…and dare I say satisfaction of achievement. He has patience.

Patience towards others was a bit harder for me. Having the ability to FarSee (of the statistician ability), I could See where someone was headed and used to try to “help” redirect them…or maybe I was trying to rescue them.

I did eventually learn that I can offer insights, but people usually need to experience things for themselves to learn from it.

Each individual is on their own journey to have their own experiences – regardless if I foresee it becoming a tumultuous leg of their journey. This includes those who choose to stay in 3D.

As we have a foot in two or more dimensions, or worlds, and we continue working on raising our frequency or vibration, others are welcome to work on following suit.

Stand in Two Worlds

I left the hot spring pools and went to play tourist for a bit. I returned to the pools many hours later when dusk had arrived. I saw, perhaps twenty feet further downstream, the heron once again -- or perhaps still -- at the water’s edge.

Another symbolic message heron brings is that transitions in life may require one to stand in two worlds...Read More

by Jan Toomer

Tuesday, August 16, 2022

None of Your Business

 

 


 

 I do remember the angst I experienced not only because of being a teen, but a teen with – what I thought of at the time – a horrible huge secret.

I was also a white northern female whose family moved to the South. I hadn’t been raised to see skin color, or to think lesser of any who appeared better, or worse, off than I. In other words, I had a big ole’ target on my back. So we could add in bullying and shunning to the teen experience.

And my secret…which really wasn’t a secret, though I tried...was about my abilities. That’s where the name calling and more shunning came in. I was the “odd” one, or “freak”, etc. I’m sure you get the gist.

I’m not complaining – I’m explaining. As teens through to young adulthood, or longer, we are pressured to conform, to “fit in”, to succeed, to follow the masses. Me? Growing up,  I just wanted to be a wallflower; blending in with the backgrounds and hoping no one noticed me. I think I got pretty good at it eventually.

Anyway, my point being, we were pressured; pushed to not be ourselves. This brought fear about what the others would think of us; we were judged. Many strove to be liked, or like me, just left alone.

And many people brought those fears and insecurities forward well into their adult life; worried about being judged and perhaps judging others not “like” you.

I got over it, but I wish someone had pulled me aside and gave my younger self the message that I bring to the table...Read More

by Jan Toomer


Sunday, November 14, 2021

Where Are You On The Scale?

 

 


 Where are you on a scale of zero percent up to one hundred percent? The responsibility scale can be applied to an individual / self, and groups or organizations, businesses, your local town, city, state governments, federal government.

This is based on my energetic observations and interpretations and is very generalized. This scale is for visualization only – it is not to scale, it is an approximation and not set in stone.

 

I’m talking about accepting responsibility for your reality.


0% - Victim-mode. Thrives on drama. If life is too calm, will create drama; this is done to re-emphasize that they are a victim. Is great at trying to draw others into their dramatic play, also known as manipulating. “Happiness” is dependent on being in the spotlight as a victim and/or stirring others up.

In victim-mode, the “victim” is giving away their power to others. This is necessary to maintain the role of being a victim. “Suzy Q wronged me”, “They won’t let/allow me to____”, “My boss did ____ to me”, etc.

They want to whine about the grave injustices done TO them. They want others to get ... Read More

by Jan Toomer




Monday, November 12, 2018

It’s Not Your Fault

In a time of accepting responsibility for one’s own action, thoughts and words, I don’t care for someone saying, “It’s not my fault.” But what about when someone says, “It’s not your fault”?

Readings


In teaching others who wish to learn or work on receiving messages (via medium abilities, channeling, etc.), one of the finishing tasks is to do a face-to-face reading of, or for me. These can be anywhere from a few words to…whatever.

One person I’d been working with addressed the deep sadness within me (which I’ve touched on in some past articles). And during the reading, I mentioned my frustration in going to places where there are a lot of confused earthbound beings (deceased, but still engaged in the 3D Earth energies), that I readily help those who wish to cross over if they are ready, but the influx is ongoing in those places. Not only that, but not everyone wants to cross over.

“It’s not your fault,” was the reader’s response... Read More

by Jan Toomer



Monday, November 3, 2014

New Energy Compassion

New Energy Compassion


"As I mentioned in the last article, I am learning to about the new energies and am trying to bring it more into all that I do. The new energies of love and compassion.

I am not a saint and still have..."

http://www.metaphysical-studies.com/blog/2014/11/03/new-energy-compassion/

by Jan Toomer