There are some people who only contact me when their life gets rough. That is a compliment to me.
Then there are those who will use you as their emotional toxic waste dump site. I know because I had allowed it for years. These types of relationships (and I use the term loosely) are one sided and they usually only call on you when they feel their life has gotten rough, but you get the added extra of them using you without thought of whom they are dumping their emotional toxicity on.
Now, I’m not talking about friends who you enjoy lifting up and they uplift you; where it’s reciprocal.
The types of dumpers are varied. You can have, for example: the users and takers...Read More
by Jan Toomer
